Thursday, February 22, 2007

LOVE?


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from left : barnabas (i), gerald (love) and jonathan (u)

questions that im confused with...

1) what is true love?
2) is she the right one?
3) i can wait forever...but is it worth it?
4) will it affect my studies?future?life?..to what extend?
5) which is urgent/urgent,urgent/important and important/important?

*concentrating on studies is just an excuse...but what should i do now?*

why i'd say so..its because..i notice that since secondary school...i quit football, badminton academy, track&field, chess tournaments (d list goes on)...why?..reason:concentrate on my studies...but at the end...i get poor results...so "quitting" doesn't solve my problems. its more like an excuse. good time management is the right thing to do.
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sometimes i feel that life is so unfair..spent so much time on something,worked so hard for it..and at the end,failed.where did i go wrong?..lack of DISCIPLINE is my weakness.

well..what the @#@#@$@#$@...its study time.

23 comments:

Anonymous said...

Meredith Grey: I wish there were a rulebook for intimacy. Some kind of guide to tell you when you've crossed the line. It would be nice if you could see it coming, and I don't know how you fit it on a map. You take it where you can get it, and keep it as long as you can. And as for rules, maybe there are none. Maybe the rules of intimacy are something you have to define for yourself.

Anonymous said...

true love is something u cannot explain.
once upon a time, when he fell for me and i asked him "why do you love me?" he stood there speechless.

once upon a time, when i fell for you and he asked me "why?" i couldn't answer either.

because true love is something you cannot explain.

a friend once told me, the moment you search for a reason to love, that is the moment when u may only be treating her as a substitute of someone else. but of course that's not entirely true.[a little to the extreme side]

we complicate our lives, with so many things with some many reasons.

yet, if we look back, love is the most basic of all, the purest of feelings...so very crude.

he told me it's a feeling when he's with me that he had been searching for and had finally found in me.
probably it comes along with other traits and personalities that he looks forward to in a girl.

but it's a feeling so strong that he feels he could not bear to let me go.

then i asked him, "how do u know if i am the right one?"
he says "i just know."
"i know you"
"you're entirely different from who i am," he told me, "yet, you complement me, making the circle perfect again".

i guess it's the personality, the traits.
whether you could live with this person or not.
but with Love comes tolerance, with tolerance, comes more Love and thus, your willing to live with her.

you can wait forever, but she may already be in someone else's arms, she may misinterpret it as you searching for a better girl...and she may choose to turn around, let go and walk away.

once upon a time, he told me, we'll take one step at a time, because these are the steps that would build up our relationship. there is no use looking too far ahead, having high expectations yet not looking at what could be done now.

to most of my friends, love is a form of motivation. a friend had found his "anger", that "determination" to work harder. and love is a form of anti-stress for her, she had not experienced too many episodes of stressful moments.

at the end of the day, it's up to you to decide, with the right partner.

if a person does not want to donate his/her organ, he/she may have a thousand reasons not to do so, but if he/she really has the intention, not even a thousand reasons could stop him/her.

:)

geraldsoh said...

yes...true love is something we cant explain..its a kind of feeling?why do we "love" that somebody?..cause we feel so comforatble being with that person,we feel secure,we feel happy,we feel motivated...sad..EVERYTHING!..being able to feel these feelings is beyond explaination..its something so special that it cant be explained.only "they" can feel it.yet to "Start" that relationship is not as easy as it seems?at least this is what im going through now.but im willing to wait.(for some ppl waiting hurts -true n not so true?)..it shows how determine u r to be with that person.

i have a friend,who loved a girl since 8 yrs old...she rejected him countless times(i guess so)..until 19 yrs old?..finally she accepts his love(for i odnt know what reason).is this really "True" love?..11 years of waiting..*respect*..


all in all,love can be something so wonderful,yet can be hurtful..sigh..*confused*.

-i chosed to wait-

Anonymous said...

if the length of time one waits for the other should be the measurement to whether or not love is true, it would be unfair for e.g a girl who had fallen head over heels for you, at first sight, a girl who had all this while felt comfortable being with you, no?

another issue is one's feeling. i would salute you, if you could bear the pain looking at her in someone else's arms...yet at the same time you'd stay firm with your decision of waiting.

what confuses people, is the motive of waiting...which explains why girls nowadays are brave enough to voice their feelings. some people don't have the patience, for the pain of loving you yet not having to be with you, yet at the same time not knowing if you are in love with someone else, that feeling...is too much to bear. some people will really choose to walk away.

time is dynamic, it ticks away. what is true for this minute may be different in the next. the next time perhaps, when one meets a girl whom one really feel comfortable with, at least give her the hope that one's waiting for her.

Anonymous said...

love is miracle n unexplainable.
My true experience is that somenone you know the best sometimes will not be your love one,instead a very vert close friend.i can be very comfortable with him,but...we just cant be together(i oso dun know why).we can share everything in our life-ups and downs,jokes,studies,expeiences,etc.E.g. once upon a time,when i was so depressed and no one could cheered me up,he comes and with just a sentence,i smile.

mayb feeling really plays an important role.mayb i dun have the feeling of staying in his arm,but i know i will always be with him no matter wat and he promised me the same thing as well.

will this consider as True love as well?i dun know...

mayb one day both of us will someone else beside us,but for sure our hearts will always have a space for each other to be in(pls dun ask me why,i couldn't answer myself as well).

anyway i appreciate the relationship.

Sometimes all these unanswered questions can be confusing us so much,but when it really comes you could always find the way out.The decision is always yours.some people might think it is not worth it to wait a person but some might think the other way round.so it goes back to you to make the choice.if you think its worth it,so just act it out,what's wrong?there will be people thinking that you are stupid/foolish but there are millions of people in this world with different thoughts, you can't take everyone words and thoughts. you couldn't take everyone into acccount. the most important thing is to be TRUE TO YOURSELF. Do what you think is worth and make no regret of it.

Anonymous said...

gerald !!!
true love....em...hard to bring out all bout tt in few words, there are hundred-pages-books on tt...
true love endures, selfishness, sincere, honest, thoughtful, patient, forgiveness...
"Her/his" is the subject in the sentence of true luv, "me" is jz a predicate...
true luv is joyful evn in time of difficulties & hardtime.evn wen v make de decision 2let go, there r stl joy in de sorrow, smile in tears, love in the heart-ache-chest-pain.
it's one of the best gift God gv to those who cherish it.
take care bro ><

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